--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: The myth that morality and fidelity are…" description: "\"“The myth that morality and fidelity are old-fashioned and trite can imprison more than just one individual as generations are affected by the choices ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b9e/sandra-rogers-276043_character_the-myth-that-morality-and-fidelity-are_3209647.jpg" --- # The myth that morality and fidelity are old-fashioned and… ![“The myth that morality and fidelity are old-fashioned and trite can imprison more than just one individual as generations are affected by the choices perpetuated by this lie. The myth that withholding judgment or having charity means that all values are relative and should be given equal…” quote by Sandra Rogers](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b9e/sandra-rogers-276043_character_the-myth-that-morality-and-fidelity-are_3209647.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b9e/sandra-rogers-276043_character_the-myth-that-morality-and-fidelity-are_3209647.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b9e/sandra-rogers-276043_character_the-myth-that-morality-and-fidelity-are_3209647.jpg) > ““The myth that morality and fidelity are old-fashioned and trite can imprison more than just one individual as generations are affected by the choices perpetuated by this lie. The myth that withholding judgment or having charity means that all values are relative and should be given equal importance or loyalty creates a heavy chain that eventually traps a person in doubt and disaffection, leaving him or her to be constantly "driven with the wind and tossed" (see James 1:6). However, confidence that Christ honors those who honor him (see 1 Samuel 2:30) provides an anchor to our souls (see Ether 12:4) whereby we are capable of giving affirmative answers to those who question the "reason of the hope that is in \[us\]" (1 Peter 3:15). I remember one of my saddest moments as a faculty member at BYU. One of my students came to me in emotional tatters. She had come to BYU looking for a supportive community that shared her values, something she had not enjoyed being the only Mormon in her high school. Instead her peers at BYU teased, sneered at, and demeaned her because she was not willing to watch an R-rated movie. How proud I was of her! Despite the hurt of rejection "by her own," her faith carried her through the social prison created by her peers. To "stand in holy places, and be not moved" (D&C 87:8) in today's world requires faith, courage, poise, and patience.”” Sandra Rogers ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Moral relativism can trap individuals in doubt; firm faith offers a steadfast anchor against cultural pressure. **In simple terms:** Relativism creates doubt; faith provides stability. Key Takeaway Hold fast to core values despite societal pressure. Themes faith relativism identity morality resilience Mood reflective hopeful determined Type inspirational spiritual educational When to use this quote - teaching - counseling - personal crisis - religious community - college life Key Concepts ethical anchoring spiritual confidence social conformity personal conviction Questions to Reflect On - What anchors your moral decisions? - How can you support others facing cultural isolation? 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