--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: This is our life. We get to decide the…" description: "\"“This is our life. We get to decide the rules. We get to say what goes and what stays, what matters and what doesn’t.”\" — Sandhya Menon" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd2/sandhya-menon-18831_choice_this-is-our-life-we-get-to-decide-the-ru_2797070.jpg" --- # This is our life. We get to decide the rules. We get to… ![“This is our life. We get to decide the rules. We get to say what goes and what stays, what matters and what doesn’t.” quote by Sandhya Menon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd2/sandhya-menon-18831_choice_this-is-our-life-we-get-to-decide-the-ru_2797070.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd2/sandhya-menon-18831_choice_this-is-our-life-we-get-to-decide-the-ru_2797070.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd2/sandhya-menon-18831_choice_this-is-our-life-we-get-to-decide-the-ru_2797070.jpg) > ““This is our life. We get to decide the rules. We get to say what goes and what stays, what matters and what doesn’t.”” [Sandhya Menon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sandhya-menon/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Life is self‑determined; we choose its rules and values. **In simple terms:** We set our own life rules. Key Takeaway Own your choices. Themes agency self‑determination life philosophy Mood empowering thoughtful Type fictional philosophical When to use this quote - goal setting - self‑reflection - empowerment Key Concepts personal decision‑making value setting Questions to Reflect On - What limits personal agency? - How to respect others’ rules? 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