--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I'm trying 2 b that strong girl that…" description: "\"I'm trying 2 b that strong girl that every 1 new she would make it through the worst & make it through all the suffering, pain, hurt as she was heartle..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/35a/samantha-shipman-52729_be-yourself_i-m-trying-2-b-that-strong-girl-that-eve_1843446.jpg" --- # I'm trying 2 b that strong girl that every 1 new she would… ![“I'm trying 2 b that strong girl that every 1 new she would make it through the worst & make it through all the suffering, pain, hurt as she was heartless & didn't care at all. Also she never let any MAN take her heart 4 it 2 b broken as her heart is stone & I felt nothing at all. I'm trying 2 b…” quote by Samantha Shipman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/35a/samantha-shipman-52729_be-yourself_i-m-trying-2-b-that-strong-girl-that-eve_1843446.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/35a/samantha-shipman-52729_be-yourself_i-m-trying-2-b-that-strong-girl-that-eve_1843446.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/35a/samantha-shipman-52729_be-yourself_i-m-trying-2-b-that-strong-girl-that-eve_1843446.jpg) > “I'm trying 2 b that strong girl that every 1 new she would make it through the worst & make it through all the suffering, pain, hurt as she was heartless & didn't care at all. Also she never let any MAN take her heart 4 it 2 b broken as her heart is stone & I felt nothing at all. I'm trying 2 b that independent girl who didn't need a man & would make her think she needed him, she couldn't b with out him as the nights got lonely & u were used 2 the comfort, loving, holding, cuddling, passion, emotions & feeling all them months. I'm trying 2 b that girl who never backed down, didn't care & thought fuck u & fight 2 stay who she was & never let LOVE take over & make her feel as this is what she needs. I'm trying 2 b that girl who learned how love hurts, it breaks ur heart & u will never b used in that way again & fall 4 the same mistakes as she let her emotions take over & she has broke down & don't no how 2 get back up. But mostly I'm trying 2 b that girl who used men & got wot she wanted” [Samantha Shipman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/samantha-shipman/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A woman strives for emotional independence, rejecting vulnerability and love to avoid pain, yet feels emptiness and conflict. **In simple terms:** She wants to be strong and avoid love, but feels lonely and broken. Key Takeaway Embrace vulnerability while maintaining self‑worth. Themes independence vulnerability emotional conflict self‑protection loneliness Mood conflicted hopeful lonely Type personal reflective advice When to use this quote - career ambition - romantic relationships - self‑esteem building - healing from heartbreak - setting boundaries Key Concepts masculinity emotional resilience relationship dynamics Questions to Reflect On - Can you balance strength with openness? - What does true independence feel like? 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