--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: How can some one be that cruel & do that…" description: "\"How can some one be that cruel & do that to you how heartless could he get when you were ment to be his every thing, his love & all that he needed & he..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b85/samantha-shipman-52729_being-hurt-by-someon_how-can-some-one-be-that-cruel-do-that-t_662356.jpg" --- # How can some one be that cruel & do that to you how… ![“How can some one be that cruel & do that to you how heartless could he get when you were ment to be his every thing, his love & all that he needed & he hated being away from me but he was cheating & sleeping with her whilst with you all the way through. I've never felt so sick knowing he had her…” quote by Samantha Shipman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b85/samantha-shipman-52729_being-hurt-by-someon_how-can-some-one-be-that-cruel-do-that-t_662356.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b85/samantha-shipman-52729_being-hurt-by-someon_how-can-some-one-be-that-cruel-do-that-t_662356.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b85/samantha-shipman-52729_being-hurt-by-someon_how-can-some-one-be-that-cruel-do-that-t_662356.jpg) > “How can some one be that cruel & do that to you how heartless could he get when you were ment to be his every thing, his love & all that he needed & he hated being away from me but he was cheating & sleeping with her whilst with you all the way through. I've never felt so sick knowing he had her then me & it's broke me & my world has fallen apart & I didn't deserve that, I didn't deserve being treated that way when I gave him every thing. When asked why he replies cos I'm a dick no sorry, no explanation & I'm hurting so much as I don't understand how he could do that to me & still climb in bed with me at night & wrap his arms around me as he had to be touching me knowing I wouldn't leave him & know he had sex with her that's cruel, that hurtful & sick & it is true he preached about me cheating & he was scared of losing me when he was doing it all a long so when accused their doing it. I hate him so much for what he's done to me & I loved him so much & he still won't tell me why?.” [Samantha Shipman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/samantha-shipman/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The speaker expresses deep betrayal and heartbreak from a partner’s infidelity, feeling undeserved pain and confusion. **In simple terms:** A partner’s cheating caused intense emotional suffering. Key Takeaway Seek healing and support after betrayal. Themes betrayal heartbreak trust Mood sad angry confused Type emotional therapeutic When to use this quote - counseling - support groups - journaling - self‑care routines - legal advice Key Concepts psychological trauma relationship dynamics Questions to Reflect On - What steps can you take to rebuild self‑worth? - How can you set boundaries to protect yourself in future relationships? 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