--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It is said that if our intention is to…" description: "\"It is said that if our intention is to help others-even if we are unable to follow it through-we will never have any regret. Regret is a result of tryi..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/3f0/sakyong-mipham-2871_helping_it-is-said-that-if-our-intention-is-to-h_2924262.jpg" --- # It is said that if our intention is to help others-even if… ![“It is said that if our intention is to help others-even if we are unable to follow it through-we will never have any regret. Regret is a result of trying to make "me" happy.” quote by Sakyong Mipham](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/3f0/sakyong-mipham-2871_helping_it-is-said-that-if-our-intention-is-to-h_2924262.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/3f0/sakyong-mipham-2871_helping_it-is-said-that-if-our-intention-is-to-h_2924262.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/3f0/sakyong-mipham-2871_helping_it-is-said-that-if-our-intention-is-to-h_2924262.jpg) > “It is said that if our intention is to help others-even if we are unable to follow it through-we will never have any regret. Regret is a result of trying to make "me" happy.” [Sakyong Mipham](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sakyong-mipham/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Intending to help others, even without full execution, prevents regret; regret stems from selfish pursuits rather than altruistic effort. **In simple terms:** Helping others avoids regret, selfishness creates it. Key Takeaway Focus on intention to aid, not just outcome. Themes ethics intention altruism regret mindfulness Mood thoughtful inspirational Type spiritual practical When to use this quote - volunteering - leadership training - personal reflection - community service Key Concepts Buddhism moral philosophy psychology Questions to Reflect On - What actions align intention with impact? - How can we balance desire to help with realistic capacity? 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