--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: There is no outlet for demonstrating your…" description: "\"“There is no outlet for demonstrating your feelings towards people whom you simply loathe. That is really the crying need of our modern civilisation. J..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7b3/saki-19236_quote_there-is-no-outlet-for-demonstrating-you_1167085.jpg" --- # There is no outlet for demonstrating your feelings towards… ![“There is no outlet for demonstrating your feelings towards people whom you simply loathe. That is really the crying need of our modern civilisation. Just think how jolly it would be if a recognised day were set apart for the paying off of old scores and grudges, a day when one could lay oneself…” quote by saki](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7b3/saki-19236_quote_there-is-no-outlet-for-demonstrating-you_1167085.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7b3/saki-19236_quote_there-is-no-outlet-for-demonstrating-you_1167085.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7b3/saki-19236_quote_there-is-no-outlet-for-demonstrating-you_1167085.jpg) > ““There is no outlet for demonstrating your feelings towards people whom you simply loathe. That is really the crying need of our modern civilisation. Just think how jolly it would be if a recognised day were set apart for the paying off of old scores and grudges, a day when one could lay oneself out to be gracefully vindictive to a carefully treasured list of 'people who must not be let off'.”” [saki](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/saki/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Modern society may crave sanctioned outlets for vengeance, highlighting a paradoxical desire for moral order and personal retribution. **In simple terms:** People want a day to settle scores. Key Takeaway Question the need for institutionalized vengeance. Themes ethics revenge societal norms paradox justice Mood critical thoughtful serious Type philosophical political When to use this quote - legal reforms - community mediation - public debates - personal grudges Key Concepts moral philosophy social critique cultural satire Questions to Reflect On - What are healthier ways to address grudges? - How does institutionalizing revenge affect justice? A Different Perspective Encouraging revenge can erode social cohesion. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Feelings](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/feelings/) [Grudges](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/grudges/) ## Related quotes > [As an actor, demonstrating your feelings in front of people is not what you're supposed to be doing. You're supposed to hold your emotions…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/james-hong/as-an-actor-demonstrating-your-feelings-in-front-of-people-is-not/) [James Hong](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/james-hong/) > [I see the joy in life and I see the joy in simple things. 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