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#  Between you and me, the words, like mortar, separating…

![“Between you and me, the words, like mortar, separating, holding together those pieces of the structure ourselves. To say them, to cast their shadows on the page, is the act of binding mutual passions, is cognizance, yourself/myself, of our sameness under skin; it rears possible cathedrals…” quote by Roger Zelazny](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1f7/roger-zelazny-1604_language_between-you-and-me-the-words-like-mortar_2070507.jpg)   [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1f7/roger-zelazny-1604_language_between-you-and-me-the-words-like-mortar_2070507.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1f7/roger-zelazny-1604_language_between-you-and-me-the-words-like-mortar_2070507.jpg)

> ““Between you and me, the words, like mortar, separating, holding together those pieces of the structure ourselves. To say them, to cast their shadows on the page, is the act of binding mutual passions, is cognizance, yourself/myself, of our sameness under skin; it rears possible cathedrals indicating infinity with steeply-high styli. For when tomorrow comes it is today, and if it is not the drop that is eternity glistening at the pen’s point, then the ink of our voices surrounds like an always night, and mortar marks the limit of our cells.””

[Roger Zelazny](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/roger-zelazny/)

## About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Language binds people, creating shared meaning and infinite possibilities through writing

**In simple terms:** Words connect us and build lasting structures

Key Takeaway

Use precise language to foster connection

Themes

communication creativity philosophy

Mood

contemplative introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

- writing workshops
- collaborative projects
- personal reflection

Key Concepts

literary theory metaphor existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

- How does language shape identity?
- In what ways can writing build community?

A Different Perspective

Complex metaphor may obscure practical application

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