--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Mind what you say, but mind more closely…" description: "\"“Mind what you say, but mind more closely what you do. For though children close their ears to you, their eyes remain wide open.”\" — Richelle E. Goodrich" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fe2/richelle-e-goodrich-180_being-an-example_mind-what-you-say-but-mind-more-closely_2578876.jpg" --- # Mind what you say, but mind more closely what you do. For… ![“Mind what you say, but mind more closely what you do. For though children close their ears to you, their eyes remain wide open.” quote by Richelle E. 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Themes parenting behavior learning Mood concerned instructive Type parental educational When to use this quote - family life - teaching - leadership - public speaking Key Concepts developmental psychology education Questions to Reflect On - How can you align words and deeds? - What habits do you model? 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