--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: You have to drop all your defenses, only…" description: "\"You have to drop all your defenses, only then is intimacy possible. We are all hiding a thousand and on things, not only from others but from ourselves..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f74/rajneesh-54_defense_you-have-to-drop-all-your-defenses-only_961785.jpg" --- # You have to drop all your defenses, only then is intimacy… ![“You have to drop all your defenses, only then is intimacy possible. We are all hiding a thousand and on things, not only from others but from ourselves.” quote by Rajneesh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f74/rajneesh-54_defense_you-have-to-drop-all-your-defenses-only_961785.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f74/rajneesh-54_defense_you-have-to-drop-all-your-defenses-only_961785.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f74/rajneesh-54_defense_you-have-to-drop-all-your-defenses-only_961785.jpg) > “You have to drop all your defenses, only then is intimacy possible. We are all hiding a thousand and on things, not only from others but from ourselves.” [Rajneesh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/rajneesh/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Intimacy requires letting go of defenses and confronting hidden truths within. **In simple terms:** Drop defenses to be truly intimate. Key Takeaway Be open, drop defenses. Themes intimacy vulnerability self-awareness Mood reflective intimate Type philosophical motivational When to use this quote - relationships - personal growth - therapy - conflict resolution Key Concepts psychology authenticity inner truth Questions to Reflect On - What defenses hold you back? - How can you safely lower them? A Different Perspective Vulnerability can expose one to hurt if not balanced. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Inspirational](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/inspirational/) [Intimacy](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/intimacy/) [Romance](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/romance/) ## Related quotes > [Real love and intimacy can be much more possible when you're older.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/jane-fonda/real-love-and-intimacy-can-be-much-more-possible-when-you-re-older/) [Jane Fonda](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jane-fonda/) > [“What is flirtation? 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