--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I have never said that love is destroyed…" description: "\"I have never said that love is destroyed by marriage. How can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage, but it is destroyed by you, not ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e9a/rajneesh-54_art_i-have-never-said-that-love-is-destroyed_2888717.jpg" --- # I have never said that love is destroyed by marriage. How… ![“I have never said that love is destroyed by marriage. How can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage, but it is destroyed by you, not by marriage. It is destroyed by the partners. How can marriage destroy love? It is you who destroy it, because you don't know what love is. You…” quote by Rajneesh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e9a/rajneesh-54_art_i-have-never-said-that-love-is-destroyed_2888717.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e9a/rajneesh-54_art_i-have-never-said-that-love-is-destroyed_2888717.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e9a/rajneesh-54_art_i-have-never-said-that-love-is-destroyed_2888717.jpg) > “I have never said that love is destroyed by marriage. How can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage, but it is destroyed by you, not by marriage. It is destroyed by the partners. How can marriage destroy love? It is you who destroy it, because you don't know what love is. You simply pretend to know, you simply hope that you know, you dream that you know, but you don't know what love is. Love has to be learned; it is the greatest art there is.” [Rajneesh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/rajneesh/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Love is not inherently ruined by marriage; it fails when partners lack true understanding and effort, treating love as a skill to be learned and practiced. **In simple terms:** Marriage isn’t the cause; people are. Key Takeaway Cultivate genuine love through learning and effort. Themes love marriage self-awareness Mood reflective hopeful Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - married couples - relationship counseling - personal development - spiritual workshops Key Concepts personal growth relationship dynamics Questions to Reflect On - What does it mean to truly know love? - How can couples practice love as an art? 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