--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I would go to parties and say I was an…" description: "\"“I would go to parties and say I was an editor, and people, especially women – and that was important to me back then – would say, “Oh, really?” and ra..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97b/peter-ferry-106239_anecdote_i-would-go-to-parties-and-say-i-was-an-e_1671343.jpg" --- # I would go to parties and say I was an editor, and people… ![“I would go to parties and say I was an editor, and people, especially women – and that was important to me back then – would say, “Oh, really?” and raise their eyebrows and look at me a little more carefully. I remember the first party I went to after I became a teacher, someone asked me what I…” quote by Peter Ferry](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97b/peter-ferry-106239_anecdote_i-would-go-to-parties-and-say-i-was-an-e_1671343.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97b/peter-ferry-106239_anecdote_i-would-go-to-parties-and-say-i-was-an-e_1671343.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/97b/peter-ferry-106239_anecdote_i-would-go-to-parties-and-say-i-was-an-e_1671343.jpg) > ““I would go to parties and say I was an editor, and people, especially women – and that was important to me back then – would say, “Oh, really?” and raise their eyebrows and look at me a little more carefully. I remember the first party I went to after I became a teacher, someone asked me what I did for a living, and I said, “Well, I teach high school.” He looked over my shoulder, nodded his head, said, “I went to high school,” and walked away. Once I repeated this anecdote around a big table full of Mexican food in the garden at a place called La Choza in Chicago, and Becky Mueller, another teacher at the school, said that I was a “storyteller.” I liked that. I was looking for something to be other than “just” a teacher, and “storyteller” felt about right. I am a teacher and a storyteller in that order. I have made my living and my real contribution to my community as a teacher, and I have been very lucky to have found that calling, but all through the years I have entertained myself and occasionally other people by telling stories.”” [Peter Ferry](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/peter-ferry/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The author felt undervalued as a teacher until being called a storyteller, which gave a richer identity. **In simple terms:** Being called a storyteller gave the teacher a valued identity. Key Takeaway Embrace storytelling to enrich teaching. Themes identity storytelling teaching career self‑esteem Mood inspirational reflective Type anecdote:1 careers:1 high school:1 humor:0 learning:0 mentorship:0 mexican food:0 storyteller:1 teacher:1 teaching:1 travel:0 writing:0 teacher storyteller:0 said storyteller:0 storyteller liked:0 storyteller felt:0 When to use this quote - classroom engagement - public speaking - career development Key Concepts education narrative personal growth Questions to Reflect On - How does narrative shape professional identity? - What other roles could teachers adopt? 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