--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Now is the only time. How we relate to it…" description: "\"Now is the only time. How we relate to it creates the future.\" — Pema Chodron" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bf/pema-ch-dr-n-327_funny_now-is-the-only-time-how-we-relate-to-it_568739.png" --- # Now is the only time. How we relate to it creates the… ![“Now is the only time. How we relate to it creates the future.” quote by Pema Chodron](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bf/pema-ch-dr-n-327_funny_now-is-the-only-time-how-we-relate-to-it_568739.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bf/pema-ch-dr-n-327_funny_now-is-the-only-time-how-we-relate-to-it_568739.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bf/pema-ch-dr-n-327_funny_now-is-the-only-time-how-we-relate-to-it_568739.png) > “Now is the only time. How we relate to it creates the future.” [Pema Chodron](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/pema-ch-dr-n/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The present moment is the only point where we can act; our relationship with now shapes future outcomes. **In simple terms:** Now is all we have. Key Takeaway Engage fully with the present. Themes mindfulness presence future action awareness Mood calm intentional Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - daily routines - goal setting - relationship building - creative work Key Concepts temporal perception intentionality cause and effect Questions to Reflect On - How does your present focus influence your goals? - What practices help you stay present? 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