--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Gloriousness and wretchedness need each…" description: "\"Gloriousness and wretchedness need each other. One inspires us, the other softens us.\" — Pema Chodron" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4b0/pema-ch-dr-n-327_inspirational_gloriousness-and-wretchedness-need-each_2372082.png" --- # Gloriousness and wretchedness need each other. One… ![“Gloriousness and wretchedness need each other. One inspires us, the other softens us.” quote by Pema Chodron](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4b0/pema-ch-dr-n-327_inspirational_gloriousness-and-wretchedness-need-each_2372082.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4b0/pema-ch-dr-n-327_inspirational_gloriousness-and-wretchedness-need-each_2372082.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4b0/pema-ch-dr-n-327_inspirational_gloriousness-and-wretchedness-need-each_2372082.png) > “Gloriousness and wretchedness need each other. One inspires us, the other softens us.” [Pema Chodron](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/pema-ch-dr-n/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Contrasting extremes of joy and sorrow shape human experience, each providing balance and growth. **In simple terms:** Joy and sorrow balance each other. Key Takeaway Embrace both highs and lows. Themes balance growth emotion Mood reflective calm Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - relationships - personal development - spiritual practice Key Concepts dualism human experience Questions to Reflect On - How do you use hardship to appreciate joy? - What practices help you hold both feelings? 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