--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: When we know what we most fear, we know…" description: "\"“When we know what we most fear, we know what we most care about.”\" — Patti Digh" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fdb/patti-digh-19842_fear_when-we-know-what-we-most-fear-we-know-w_1775294.jpg" --- # When we know what we most fear, we know what we most care… ![“When we know what we most fear, we know what we most care about.” quote by Patti Digh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fdb/patti-digh-19842_fear_when-we-know-what-we-most-fear-we-know-w_1775294.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fdb/patti-digh-19842_fear_when-we-know-what-we-most-fear-we-know-w_1775294.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fdb/patti-digh-19842_fear_when-we-know-what-we-most-fear-we-know-w_1775294.jpg) > ““When we know what we most fear, we know what we most care about.”” [Patti Digh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/patti-digh/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Understanding our deepest fears reveals our true priorities and motivations. **In simple terms:** Fear shows what we care about. Key Takeaway Identify fears to clarify values. Themes self‑awareness values motivation Mood reflective thoughtful Type philosophical motivational When to use this quote - career decisions - relationship choices - personal growth - risk assessment Key Concepts psychology priority mapping Questions to Reflect On - What fear points to your core values? - How can you test if a fear is rational? 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