--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: The new is unfamiliar. It may be the…" description: "\"“The new is unfamiliar. It may be the friend, it may be the enemy, who knows? There is no way to know! The only way to know is to allow it; hence the a..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ac6/osho-519_fear_the-new-is-unfamiliar-it-may-be-the-frie_1032342.jpg" --- # The new is unfamiliar. It may be the friend, it may be the… ![“The new is unfamiliar. It may be the friend, it may be the enemy, who knows? There is no way to know! The only way to know is to allow it; hence the apprehension, the fear.” quote by Osho](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ac6/osho-519_fear_the-new-is-unfamiliar-it-may-be-the-frie_1032342.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ac6/osho-519_fear_the-new-is-unfamiliar-it-may-be-the-frie_1032342.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ac6/osho-519_fear_the-new-is-unfamiliar-it-may-be-the-frie_1032342.jpg) > ““The new is unfamiliar. It may be the friend, it may be the enemy, who knows? There is no way to know! The only way to know is to allow it; hence the apprehension, the fear.”” [Osho](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/osho/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The unknown can be either friend or foe, but we cannot know which until we allow it, which creates fear and apprehension. **In simple terms:** We fear the unknown because we resist accepting it. Key Takeaway Accept uncertainty to reduce fear. Themes fear uncertainty acceptance Mood anxious thoughtful Type philosophical motivational When to use this quote - decision making - new relationships - career changes - creative projects Key Concepts psychology philosophy spirituality Questions to Reflect On - What would happen if you welcomed the unknown? - How can you differentiate friend from foe in uncertainty? 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