--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: In fact as I see it, no lover has ever…" description: "\"“In fact as I see it, no lover has ever betrayed anybody. It is only ignorance that kills love – nobody betrays it. Both wanted to be together, but som..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ec/osho-519_breakup_in-fact-as-i-see-it-no-lover-has-ever-be_410101.jpg" --- # In fact as I see it, no lover has ever betrayed anybody… ![“In fact as I see it, no lover has ever betrayed anybody. It is only ignorance that kills love – nobody betrays it. Both wanted to be together, but somehow both were ignorant. Their ignorance played tricks upon them and became multiplied. By and by they drifted. Then they think that love is…” quote by Osho](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ec/osho-519_breakup_in-fact-as-i-see-it-no-lover-has-ever-be_410101.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ec/osho-519_breakup_in-fact-as-i-see-it-no-lover-has-ever-be_410101.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4ec/osho-519_breakup_in-fact-as-i-see-it-no-lover-has-ever-be_410101.jpg) > ““In fact as I see it, no lover has ever betrayed anybody. It is only ignorance that kills love – nobody betrays it. Both wanted to be together, but somehow both were ignorant. Their ignorance played tricks upon them and became multiplied. By and by they drifted. Then they think that love is dangerous. Love is not dangerous. Only unawareness is dangerous.”” [Osho](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/osho/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Love is not betrayed; lack of awareness causes harm, while conscious love thrives. **In simple terms:** Awareness protects love. Key Takeaway Cultivate mindfulness in relationships. Themes love awareness trust Mood reflective hopeful Type inspirational philosophical When to use this quote - dating - marriage - friendship - conflict resolution Key Concepts psychology spirituality Questions to Reflect On - How can you increase awareness in love? - What habits nurture safe love? 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