--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I had to let go many people several…" description: "\"I had to let go many people several times, and it was always extremely hard. I would feel some sort of loss, which would lead to depression, and to the..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d5f/my-own-32170_complicated-love_i-had-to-let-go-many-people-several-time_317049.jpg" --- # I had to let go many people several times, and it was… ![“I had to let go many people several times, and it was always extremely hard. I would feel some sort of loss, which would lead to depression, and to the start of a new ambition. I've learned that I cannot always count on one person to continuously give me the love, protection, security…” quote by My Own](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d5f/my-own-32170_complicated-love_i-had-to-let-go-many-people-several-time_317049.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d5f/my-own-32170_complicated-love_i-had-to-let-go-many-people-several-time_317049.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d5f/my-own-32170_complicated-love_i-had-to-let-go-many-people-several-time_317049.jpg) > “I had to let go many people several times, and it was always extremely hard. I would feel some sort of loss, which would lead to depression, and to the start of a new ambition. I've learned that I cannot always count on one person to continuously give me the love, protection, security, bond,family, friend, support etc. that I need at the very instant I need it. Yet there is one person that understand me always and the best and can love me the way I want the way I need it. And that person is myself. I thank myself for loving me. I do want to give the love I give to myself to someone else, but I want that someone else to love me they way he loves himself or the way I love myself. I want us both to become one. I dont want to make that mistake again where I give all my attention to him, the one who doesnt entirely love me. It puts a difference between me and myself. Im glad to have myself back, and I dont want to lose myself again. Thank you god for helping me find myself again. Love you” My Own ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Self‑love is essential; relying on others for validation leads to disappointment. **In simple terms:** Love yourself first. Key Takeaway Cultivate inner support. Themes self‑love independence relationships Mood introspective hopeful Type personal motivational When to use this quote - stressful breakups - career setbacks - self‑esteem work Key Concepts emotional resilience personal growth Questions to Reflect On - What does self‑acceptance look like for you? - How can you balance self‑care with caring for others? 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