--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I once picked up a woman from a garbage…" description: "\"I once picked up a woman from a garbage dump and she was burning with fever; she was in her last days and her only lament was: My son did this to me. I..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/776/mother-teresa-196_able_i-once-picked-up-a-woman-from-a-garbage_1720944.jpg" --- # I once picked up a woman from a garbage dump and she was… ![“I once picked up a woman from a garbage dump and she was burning with fever; she was in her last days and her only lament was: My son did this to me. I begged her: You must forgive your son. In a moment of madness, when he was not himself, he did a thing he regrets. Be a mother to him, forgive…” quote by Mother Teresa](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/776/mother-teresa-196_able_i-once-picked-up-a-woman-from-a-garbage_1720944.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/776/mother-teresa-196_able_i-once-picked-up-a-woman-from-a-garbage_1720944.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/776/mother-teresa-196_able_i-once-picked-up-a-woman-from-a-garbage_1720944.jpg) > “I once picked up a woman from a garbage dump and she was burning with fever; she was in her last days and her only lament was: My son did this to me. I begged her: You must forgive your son. In a moment of madness, when he was not himself, he did a thing he regrets. Be a mother to him, forgive him. It took me a long time to make her say: I forgive my son. Just before she died in my arms, she was able to say that with a real forgiveness. She was not concerned that she was dying. The breaking of the heart was that her son did not want her. This is something you and I can understand.” [Mother Teresa](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/mother-teresa/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Forgiveness can be granted even in extreme suffering, offering peace to both giver and receiver. **In simple terms:** Forgiveness brings peace even at life's end. Key Takeaway Offer forgiveness to heal. Themes compassion forgiveness mortality Mood sad hopeful reflective Type inspirational philosophical When to use this quote - terminal illness - grief counseling - family conflict Key Concepts empathy psychology spirituality Questions to Reflect On - What prevents someone from forgiving? - How does forgiveness affect the forgiver? 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