--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Yes, they have. It was back when they…" description: "\"“Yes, they have. It was back when they still didn't know each other by name. In the great hall of a mountain lodge, with people drinking and chattering..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d4f/milan-kundera-120_kissed_yes-they-have-it-was-back-when-they-stil_2335844.jpg" --- # Yes, they have. It was back when they still didn't know… ![“Yes, they have. It was back when they still didn't know each other by name. In the great hall of a mountain lodge, with people drinking and chattering around them, they exchanged a few commonplaces, but the tone of their voices made it clear that they wanted each other, and they withdrew into an…” quote by Milan Kundera](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d4f/milan-kundera-120_kissed_yes-they-have-it-was-back-when-they-stil_2335844.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d4f/milan-kundera-120_kissed_yes-they-have-it-was-back-when-they-stil_2335844.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d4f/milan-kundera-120_kissed_yes-they-have-it-was-back-when-they-stil_2335844.jpg) > ““Yes, they have. It was back when they still didn't know each other by name. In the great hall of a mountain lodge, with people drinking and chattering around them, they exchanged a few commonplaces, but the tone of their voices made it clear that they wanted each other, and they withdrew into an empty corridor where, wordlessly, they kissed. She opened her mouth and pressed her tongue into Jean Marc's mouth, eager to lick whatever she would find inside. This zeal of their tongues was not a sensual necessity but an urgency to let each other know that they were prepared to make love, right away, instantly, fully and wildly and without losing a moment.”” [Milan Kundera](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/milan-kundera/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Two strangers, driven by intense desire, bypass conventional courtship, seeking immediate, total connection through a passionate kiss. **In simple terms:** They crave instant, full intimacy without hesitation. Key Takeaway Allow desire to guide authentic, present moments. Themes desire intimacy spontaneity passion Mood intense reflective Type literary romantic When to use this quote - romantic encounters - first meetings - emotional urgency - artistic expression Key Concepts existentialism human connection psychology Questions to Reflect On - What does instant passion reveal about human needs? - When is spontaneity beneficial versus risky? A Different Perspective Such impulsive intimacy may overlook deeper compatibility and emotional safety. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Sensual](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/sensual/) ## Related quotes > [“You kissed me, and I opened my eyes and thought you were Death. 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