--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I know, brother, that you are a…" description: "\"“I know, brother, that you are a straightforward man, and that you pride yourself on it. But put one question to yourself: why in fact should one tell ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/milan-kundera-120_honesty_i-know-brother-that-you-are-a-straightfo_2696612.jpg" --- # I know, brother, that you are a straightforward man, and… ![“I know, brother, that you are a straightforward man, and that you pride yourself on it. But put one question to yourself: why in fact should one tell the truth? What obliges us to do it? And why do we consider telling the truth a virtue? Imagine that you meet a madman, who claims that he is a fish…” quote by Milan Kundera](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/milan-kundera-120_honesty_i-know-brother-that-you-are-a-straightfo_2696612.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/milan-kundera-120_honesty_i-know-brother-that-you-are-a-straightfo_2696612.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/milan-kundera-120_honesty_i-know-brother-that-you-are-a-straightfo_2696612.jpg) > ““I know, brother, that you are a straightforward man, and that you pride yourself on it. But put one question to yourself: why in fact should one tell the truth? What obliges us to do it? And why do we consider telling the truth a virtue? Imagine that you meet a madman, who claims that he is a fish and that we are all fish. Are you going to argue with him? Are you going to undress in front of him and show him that you don't have fins? Are you going to say to his face what you think? Well, tell me!' His brother was silent and Edward went on: 'If you told him the whole truth and nothing but the truth, only what you really thought, you would enter into a serious conversation with a madman and you yourself would become mad. And it is the same way with the world that surrounds us. If I obstinately told a man the truth to his face, it would mean I was taking him seriously. And to take something so unimportant seriously means to become less than serious oneself. I, you see, must lie, if I don't want to take madmen seriously and become one of them myself.”” [Milan Kundera](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/milan-kundera/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Truth can be a burden that drags us into madness if taken too seriously; sometimes deception preserves sanity. **In simple terms:** Truth can drive you mad; lying protects sanity. Key Takeaway Choose when honesty serves purpose. Themes truth sanity philosophy ethics Mood thoughtful reflective Type philosophical literary When to use this quote - personal relationships - political discourse - media reporting - everyday conversations Key Concepts existentialism relativism social interaction Questions to Reflect On - When does honesty become harmful? - Can deception ever be morally justified? A Different Perspective Truth may cause alienation or conflict if applied unconditionally. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Honesty](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/honesty/) [Lies](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/lies/) [Lying](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/lying/) [Telling the truth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/telling-the-truth/) [Truth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/truth/) [Virtue](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/virtue/) ## Related quotes > [The President's biggest problem right now is he's gotta tell the truth. And we've seen this in New Jersey. 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