--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: If you are going to fall in love with me…" description: "\"If you are going to fall in love with me, its only fair that you know what your falling in love with. You are falling in love with my insecurities, and..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/mickey-26464_cute-love_if-you-are-going-to-fall-in-love-with-me_2756554.jpg" --- # If you are going to fall in love with me, its only fair… ![“If you are going to fall in love with me, its only fair that you know what your falling in love with. You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and…” quote by Mickey](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/mickey-26464_cute-love_if-you-are-going-to-fall-in-love-with-me_2756554.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/mickey-26464_cute-love_if-you-are-going-to-fall-in-love-with-me_2756554.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b44/mickey-26464_cute-love_if-you-are-going-to-fall-in-love-with-me_2756554.jpg) > “If you are going to fall in love with me, its only fair that you know what your falling in love with. You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive duct of tears, my internet obsession, my tendency to be to clingy. You fall in love with my troubled past, my hopes and dreams, & how I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you fall in love with my self hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody could ever love me. But, also your falling in love with the way my eyes smile when I'm with you. The way I'll text you every morning just telling you I hope you have a great day. You're falling in love with the occasionally humourous and/or thought-provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask me about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that your falling in love with me, despite my thinking that it is impossible.” [Mickey](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/mickey/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The speaker lists many personal flaws and vulnerabilities, asking a partner to love them despite these imperfections, emphasizing acceptance of the whole self. **In simple terms:** Love the whole person, flaws and strengths. Key Takeaway Accept partners fully, despite imperfections. Themes love vulnerability acceptance self-awareness relationships Mood hopeful reflective vulnerable Type advice personal romantic When to use this quote - dating - long-term partnership - conflict resolution - personal growth - emotional intimacy Key Concepts self-esteem insecurity romantic idealism Questions to Reflect On - Can you love someone fully without trying to fix them? - How does acknowledging flaws strengthen intimacy? 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