--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: And I also know that pain can seem like…" description: "\"And I also know that pain can seem like an endless ribbon. You pull it and you pull it. You keep gathering it toward you, and as it collects, you reall..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1d2/meg-wolitzer-2224_believe_and-i-also-know-that-pain-can-seem-like_3232209.jpg" --- # And I also know that pain can seem like an endless ribbon… ![“And I also know that pain can seem like an endless ribbon. You pull it and you pull it. You keep gathering it toward you, and as it collects, you really can't believe that there's something else at the end of it. Something that isn't just more pain. But there's always something else at the end…” quote by Meg Wolitzer](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1d2/meg-wolitzer-2224_believe_and-i-also-know-that-pain-can-seem-like_3232209.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1d2/meg-wolitzer-2224_believe_and-i-also-know-that-pain-can-seem-like_3232209.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1d2/meg-wolitzer-2224_believe_and-i-also-know-that-pain-can-seem-like_3232209.jpg) > “And I also know that pain can seem like an endless ribbon. You pull it and you pull it. You keep gathering it toward you, and as it collects, you really can't believe that there's something else at the end of it. Something that isn't just more pain. But there's always something else at the end; something at least a little different. You never know what that thing will be, but it's there.” [Meg Wolitzer](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/meg-wolitzer/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Pain often feels endless, but hope suggests another experience awaits beyond suffering. **In simple terms:** Pain seems endless, but hope exists. Key Takeaway Hold onto hope during hardship. Themes suffering hope resilience Mood somber optimistic Type inspirational philosophical When to use this quote - grief - chronic illness - loss - personal growth Key Concepts existentialism psychology spirituality Questions to Reflect On - What might the "something else" be for you? - How can you cultivate hope? 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