--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: There are some who come willingly,\" I…" description: "\"“There are some who come willingly,\" I said, as if I had not heard him, \"not out of love, but out of sickness and sadness and a lack of understanding. ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/289/martine-leavitt-20406_hopeless_there-are-some-who-come-willingly-i-said_1361401.png" --- # There are some who come willingly," I said, as if I had… ![“There are some who come willingly," I said, as if I had not heard him, "not out of love, but out of sickness and sadness and a lack of understanding. He wanted none of them. And so he waited without waiting, and dreamed of what he could not imagine, and performed his terrible work and lived only…” quote by Martine Leavitt](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/289/martine-leavitt-20406_hopeless_there-are-some-who-come-willingly-i-said_1361401.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/289/martine-leavitt-20406_hopeless_there-are-some-who-come-willingly-i-said_1361401.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/289/martine-leavitt-20406_hopeless_there-are-some-who-come-willingly-i-said_1361401.png) > ““There are some who come willingly," I said, as if I had not heard him, "not out of love, but out of sickness and sadness and a lack of understanding. He wanted none of them. And so he waited without waiting, and dreamed of what he could not imagine, and performed his terrible work and lived only in the moments out of which eternity is spun, knowing it was hopeless.”” [Martine Leavitt](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/martine-leavitt/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. People may act out of desperation, not love, leading to tragic outcomes. **In simple terms:** Desperation drives harmful actions. Key Takeaway Recognize and address underlying suffering. Themes despair misunderstanding human frailty Mood somber reflective Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - mental health care - conflict resolution - social work - family dynamics - ethical decision making Key Concepts psychology empathy existentialism Questions to Reflect On - What motivates people to act against their values? - How can empathy change outcomes? 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