--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: If your going to be with someone, then be…" description: "\"If your going to be with someone, then be with them and dont screw it up by thinking about yourself, being with some one is, being a team and being a t..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cd1/mandyrae-south-107874_baby_if-your-going-to-be-with-someone-then-be_705924.jpg" --- # If your going to be with someone, then be with them and… ![“If your going to be with someone, then be with them and dont screw it up by thinking about yourself, being with some one is, being a team and being a trustworthy person and trusting your partner. If your with them to play some kind of sick game, then karma will play a game with you and dont expect…” quote by MandyRae South](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cd1/mandyrae-south-107874_baby_if-your-going-to-be-with-someone-then-be_705924.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cd1/mandyrae-south-107874_baby_if-your-going-to-be-with-someone-then-be_705924.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/cd1/mandyrae-south-107874_baby_if-your-going-to-be-with-someone-then-be_705924.jpg) > “If your going to be with someone, then be with them and dont screw it up by thinking about yourself, being with some one is, being a team and being a trustworthy person and trusting your partner. If your with them to play some kind of sick game, then karma will play a game with you and dont expect to have fun. If you have the nerve to say meaningful and serious words that people must mean before saying them, words like I love you, I will never hurt you or/and never will leave you, we are meant to be or anything else like that, you better mean it and not just saying it just to say it cause people may forget it in the future, but God wont. Be careful what you do in a relationship you will never find another person like them ever again.” MandyRae South ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The quote advises honesty, commitment, and trust in relationships, warning that deceit leads to negative consequences. **In simple terms:** Honesty and trust are essential in relationships. Key Takeaway Be sincere and trustworthy with partners. 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