--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: So . . . if you spurned a miracle because…" description: "\"“So . . . if you spurned a miracle because it seemed to come too easily, would you ever get another? She suspected not. Hang on to this one, then. Hang..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f1c/lois-mcmaster-bujold-716_dear-god_so-if-you-spurned-a-miracle-because-it-s_2752850.jpg" --- # So . . . if you spurned a miracle because it seemed to… ![“So . . . if you spurned a miracle because it seemed to come too easily, would you ever get another? She suspected not. Hang on to this one, then. Hang on for all you’re worth. Their breathing slowed in their shared warmth; that was good. “You know what I like best about you, Ivan Xav?” she asked…” quote by Lois McMaster Bujold](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f1c/lois-mcmaster-bujold-716_dear-god_so-if-you-spurned-a-miracle-because-it-s_2752850.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f1c/lois-mcmaster-bujold-716_dear-god_so-if-you-spurned-a-miracle-because-it-s_2752850.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f1c/lois-mcmaster-bujold-716_dear-god_so-if-you-spurned-a-miracle-because-it-s_2752850.jpg) > ““So . . . if you spurned a miracle because it seemed to come too easily, would you ever get another? She suspected not. Hang on to this one, then. Hang on for all you’re worth. Their breathing slowed in their shared warmth; that was good. “You know what I like best about you, Ivan Xav?” she asked, newly shy in her illumination. He turned his chin into her hair in an inquiring sort of way. “My shiny groundcar? My Vorish insouciance? My astounding sexual prowess? My . . . my mother? Dear God, you’re not taking me for the sake of getting my um-stepfather?” “Well, I do like them both very much, but no. What I like best about you, Ivan Xav, is that you’re nice. And you make me laugh.” She smiled now, into his shoulder.”” [Lois McMaster Bujold](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/lois-mcmaster-bujold/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A character reflects on cherishing rare, precious moments and genuine connection over fleeting miracles, emphasizing love and humor as lasting values. **In simple terms:** Value genuine moments and humor over easy miracles. Key Takeaway Cherish what you have and find joy in simple connections. 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