--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I am certain that I’m not the only one…" description: "\"“I am certain that I’m not the only one who would like to have a do-over on an interaction with a loved one.”\" — Lisa J. Shultz" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/763/lisa-j-shultz-17419_do-over_i-am-certain-that-i-m-not-the-only-one-w_1792081.jpg" --- # I am certain that I’m not the only one who would like to… ![“I am certain that I’m not the only one who would like to have a do-over on an interaction with a loved one.” quote by Lisa J. Shultz](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/763/lisa-j-shultz-17419_do-over_i-am-certain-that-i-m-not-the-only-one-w_1792081.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/763/lisa-j-shultz-17419_do-over_i-am-certain-that-i-m-not-the-only-one-w_1792081.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/763/lisa-j-shultz-17419_do-over_i-am-certain-that-i-m-not-the-only-one-w_1792081.jpg) > ““I am certain that I’m not the only one who would like to have a do-over on an interaction with a loved one.”” [Lisa J. Shultz](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/lisa-j-shultz/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. She wishes for a chance to redo interactions with loved ones, acknowledging regret and desire for better outcomes. **In simple terms:** Want a do‑over with loved ones. Key Takeaway Seek forgiveness, improve communication. 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