--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Some mornings, she’d wake and vow, Today…" description: "\"“Some mornings, she’d wake and vow, Today, I will get it right. I won’t be such an awful mess of a girl. I won’t lose my temper or make unkind remarks...." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da7/libba-bray-259_gaze_some-mornings-she-d-wake-and-vow-today-i_2130353.jpg" --- # Some mornings, she’d wake and vow, Today, I will get it… ![“Some mornings, she’d wake and vow, Today, I will get it right. I won’t be such an awful mess of a girl. I won’t lose my temper or make unkind remarks. I won’t go too far with a joke and feel the room go quiet with disapproval. I’ll be good and kind and sensible and patient. The sort everyone loves…” quote by Libba Bray](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da7/libba-bray-259_gaze_some-mornings-she-d-wake-and-vow-today-i_2130353.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da7/libba-bray-259_gaze_some-mornings-she-d-wake-and-vow-today-i_2130353.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da7/libba-bray-259_gaze_some-mornings-she-d-wake-and-vow-today-i_2130353.jpg) > ““Some mornings, she’d wake and vow, Today, I will get it right. I won’t be such an awful mess of a girl. I won’t lose my temper or make unkind remarks. I won’t go too far with a joke and feel the room go quiet with disapproval. I’ll be good and kind and sensible and patient. The sort everyone loves . But by evening, her good intentions would have unraveled. She’d say the wrong thing or talk a little too loudly. She’d take a dare she shouldn’t, just to be noticed. Perhaps Mabel was right, and she was selfish. But what was the point of living so quietly you made no noise at all? “Oh, Evie, you’re too much,” people said, and it wasn’t complimentary. Yes, she was too much. She felt like too much inside all the time. So why wasn’t she ever enough?”” [Libba Bray](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/libba-bray/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A woman struggles between societal expectations of being perfect and her authentic, intense self, feeling never enough no **In simple terms:** She feels too much and not enough, torn between being good and being herself. Key Takeaway Embrace authenticity, reject impossible perfection. Themes identity self‑acceptance societal pressure self‑worth authenticity Mood conflicted reflective Type personal motivational When to use this quote - personal relationships - workplace dynamics - social media presence - mental health therapy Key Concepts self‑esteem cognitive dissonance social conformity Questions to Reflect On - How do you balance self‑care with societal expectations? - What does “too much” feel like for you? A Different Perspective Perfectionism can mask deeper insecurities and hinder growth. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Good intentions](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/good-intentions/) [Intentions](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/intentions/) ## Related quotes > [ “\[He\] has always believed in me. Even when I didn’t believe in myself. 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