--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I just read this great quote by Junot…" description: "\"“I just read this great quote by Junot Diaz, he was talking about true intimacy, and he was saying that it was the willingness to be vulnerable and to ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/bdc/libba-bray-259_getting-drunk_i-just-read-this-great-quote-by-junot-di_2810653.png" --- # I just read this great quote by Junot Diaz, he was talking… ![“I just read this great quote by Junot Diaz, he was talking about true intimacy, and he was saying that it was the willingness to be vulnerable and to be found out. That’s what I felt that YA did. It wasn't pretentious, and it wasn’t hiding its heart. It wanted to be found out... It felt like those…” quote by Libba Bray](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/bdc/libba-bray-259_getting-drunk_i-just-read-this-great-quote-by-junot-di_2810653.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/bdc/libba-bray-259_getting-drunk_i-just-read-this-great-quote-by-junot-di_2810653.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/bdc/libba-bray-259_getting-drunk_i-just-read-this-great-quote-by-junot-di_2810653.png) > ““I just read this great quote by Junot Diaz, he was talking about true intimacy, and he was saying that it was the willingness to be vulnerable and to be found out. That’s what I felt that YA did. It wasn't pretentious, and it wasn’t hiding its heart. It wanted to be found out... It felt like those moments when you go to a party and you're standing around for a long time, going, I don't fit in here, what am I going to talk to these people about? And everybody's getting drunk, and then you find this one person, and you end up sitting in some corner talking about all these arcane things. And then before you know it you're having a conversation about the meaning of life and it's four o’clock in the morning. That kind of feeling, that kind of intimacy — I felt like that's what I got from YA.”” [Libba Bray](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/libba-bray/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. True intimacy is vulnerability and being found, like a deep conversation at a party that shifts to life's meaning in the early morning. **In simple terms:** Intimacy comes from being vulnerable and truly seen. Key Takeaway Embrace vulnerability to connect deeply. Themes intimacy vulnerability authenticity Mood thoughtful empathetic Type reflective inspirational When to use this quote - friendship - romantic relationships - creative collaborations - support groups Key Concepts deep conversations nighttime reflections Questions to Reflect On - When did you feel truly seen? - How can you create safe spaces for openness? 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