--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: What are you so afraid will happen?…" description: "\"“What are you so afraid will happen? Afraid you might start to like me?” He said nothing. Despite her fatigue, she trotted ahead of him. “That’s it, is..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b27/leigh-bardugo-252_fear_what-are-you-so-afraid-will-happen-afrai_1330217.jpg" --- # What are you so afraid will happen? Afraid you might start… ![“What are you so afraid will happen? Afraid you might start to like me?” He said nothing. Despite her fatigue, she trotted ahead of him. “That’s it, isn’t it? You don’t want to like a Grisha. You’re scared that if you laugh at my jokes or answer my questions, you might start thinking I’m human…” quote by Leigh Bardugo](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b27/leigh-bardugo-252_fear_what-are-you-so-afraid-will-happen-afrai_1330217.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b27/leigh-bardugo-252_fear_what-are-you-so-afraid-will-happen-afrai_1330217.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b27/leigh-bardugo-252_fear_what-are-you-so-afraid-will-happen-afrai_1330217.jpg) > ““What are you so afraid will happen? Afraid you might start to like me?” He said nothing. Despite her fatigue, she trotted ahead of him. “That’s it, isn’t it? You don’t want to like a Grisha. You’re scared that if you laugh at my jokes or answer my questions, you might start thinking I’m human. Would that be so terrible?” “I do like you.” “What was that?” “I do like you,” he said angrily. She’d beamed, feeling a well of pleasure erupt through her. “Now, really, is that so bad?” “Yes!” he roared. “Why?” “Because you’re horrible. You’re loud and lewd and . . . treacherous. Brum warned us that Grisha could be charming.” “Oh, I see. I’m the wicked Grisha seductress. I have beguiled you with my Grisha wiles!” She poked him in the chest. “Stop that.” “No. I’m beguiling you.” “Quit it.” She danced around him in the snow, poking his chest, his stomach, his side. “Goodness! You’re very solid. This is strenuous work.” He started to laugh. “It’s working! The beguiling has begun. The Fjerdan has fallen. You are powerless to resist me.”” [Leigh Bardugo](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/leigh-bardugo/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A tense dialogue explores fear of intimacy and prejudice, revealing how labeling and suspicion hinder genuine connection. **In simple terms:** Fear and prejudice block true connection. Key Takeaway Challenge assumptions about others. Themes fear prejudice intimacy Mood tense dramatic Type literary dialogue When to use this quote - romantic tension - conflict resolution - personal growth Key Concepts identity social dynamics power Questions to Reflect On - What assumptions prevent intimacy? - How can we see beyond labels? A Different Perspective May oversimplify complex power dynamics. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Fear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/fear/) [Nina-zenik](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/nina-zenik/) ## Related quotes > [“What was that?” “I do like you,” he said angrily. 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