--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I think we often hold heroines to an…" description: "\"“I think we often hold heroines to an absurd standard. Be brave! Be wise! Always know what's in your heart and speak the truth of it! No and no and no...." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b5/leigh-bardugo-252_brave_i-think-we-often-hold-heroines-to-an-abs_2666322.png" --- # I think we often hold heroines to an absurd standard. Be… ![“I think we often hold heroines to an absurd standard. Be brave! Be wise! Always know what's in your heart and speak the truth of it! No and no and no. We fight to be brave. We learn to be wise. We struggle to know ourselves and voice what we want.” quote by Leigh Bardugo](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b5/leigh-bardugo-252_brave_i-think-we-often-hold-heroines-to-an-abs_2666322.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b5/leigh-bardugo-252_brave_i-think-we-often-hold-heroines-to-an-abs_2666322.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1b5/leigh-bardugo-252_brave_i-think-we-often-hold-heroines-to-an-abs_2666322.png) > ““I think we often hold heroines to an absurd standard. Be brave! Be wise! Always know what's in your heart and speak the truth of it! No and no and no. We fight to be brave. We learn to be wise. We struggle to know ourselves and voice what we want.”” [Leigh Bardugo](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/leigh-bardugo/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. We should hold heroines to realistic standards, encouraging bravery, wisdom, honesty, and self‑knowledge. **In simple terms:** Encourage heroines to be brave, wise, honest, and true to themselves. Key Takeaway Cultivate authenticity and courage. Themes heroism self‑discovery truth Mood empowering inspirational Type motivational literary When to use this quote - personal growth - conflict resolution - creative writing Key Concepts feminism character development Questions to Reflect On - What does bravery mean to you? - How can you stay true to your heart? 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