--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: There is some comfort in killing that…" description: "\"There is some comfort in killing that which has hurt you, but it is cold comfort. It'll destroy things inside of you that the original pain wouldn't ha..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0bf/laurell-k-hamilton-199_cold_there-is-some-comfort-in-killing-that-wh_2499284.jpg" --- # There is some comfort in killing that which has hurt you… ![“There is some comfort in killing that which has hurt you, but it is cold comfort. It'll destroy things inside of you that the original pain wouldn't have harmed. Sometimes it's not a question of whether a piece of your soul is going to go missing, only which piece it's going to be.” quote by Laurell K. Hamilton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0bf/laurell-k-hamilton-199_cold_there-is-some-comfort-in-killing-that-wh_2499284.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0bf/laurell-k-hamilton-199_cold_there-is-some-comfort-in-killing-that-wh_2499284.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0bf/laurell-k-hamilton-199_cold_there-is-some-comfort-in-killing-that-wh_2499284.jpg) > “There is some comfort in killing that which has hurt you, but it is cold comfort. It'll destroy things inside of you that the original pain wouldn't have harmed. Sometimes it's not a question of whether a piece of your soul is going to go missing, only which piece it's going to be.” [Laurell K. Hamilton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laurell-k-hamilton/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Killing someone who hurt you offers a cold, hollow comfort, damaging inner parts that original pain wouldn't, while only certain soul fragments are lost. **In simple terms:** Vengeance feels comforting but harms you and only parts of your soul remain. Key Takeaway Beware of the hidden costs of revenge. Themes revenge healing identity Mood somber introspective Type psychological philosophical When to use this quote - personal loss - self‑reflection - conflict resolution Key Concepts psychology emotional trauma Questions to Reflect On - What part of yourself might you lose? - Is there a healthier way to heal? 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