--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: As I got older, I thought about aging…" description: "\"“As I got older, I thought about aging more, as we all do. I came to think of old age as a fallibility akin to illness, something that left a person we..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/794/lai-wen-173003_aging_as-i-got-older-i-thought-about-aging-mor_1374413.jpg" --- # As I got older, I thought about aging more, as we all do… ![“As I got older, I thought about aging more, as we all do. I came to think of old age as a fallibility akin to illness, something that left a person weak and in some way less than themselves. But I never used to think of my grandmother that way. Her hands with veins running across them like vines…” quote by Lai Wen](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/794/lai-wen-173003_aging_as-i-got-older-i-thought-about-aging-mor_1374413.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/794/lai-wen-173003_aging_as-i-got-older-i-thought-about-aging-mor_1374413.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/794/lai-wen-173003_aging_as-i-got-older-i-thought-about-aging-mor_1374413.jpg) > ““As I got older, I thought about aging more, as we all do. I came to think of old age as a fallibility akin to illness, something that left a person weak and in some way less than themselves. But I never used to think of my grandmother that way. Her hands with veins running across them like vines, the lines that criss-crossed her forehead, the full softness of her belly, the solidity of her arthritic shoulders, and those ancient, timeless eyes - to me these things spoke not of fallibility but of permanence. Of implacable strength, like an old gnarly tree that had been battered by wind and weather, but remained stubbornly set into the soil.”” Lai Wen ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Aging is often seen as decline but can be viewed as enduring strength and permanence. **In simple terms:** Old age shows lasting strength like a sturdy tree. Key Takeaway Respect the wisdom and resilience that comes with age. Themes aging wisdom strength permanence Mood reflective respectful Type narrative philosophical When to use this quote - elder care - family storytelling - intergenerational mentorship Key Concepts gerontology philosophy of aging Questions to Reflect On - How does your perception of aging affect your elders? - What strengths do you see in older individuals? 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