--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It must be admitted frankly that Aunt…" description: "\"“It must be admitted frankly that Aunt Becky was not particularly beloved by her clan. She was too fond of telling them what she called the plain truth..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/l-m-montgomery-567_aunt_it-must-be-admitted-frankly-that-aunt-be_2515308.jpg" --- # It must be admitted frankly that Aunt Becky was not… ![“It must be admitted frankly that Aunt Becky was not particularly beloved by her clan. She was too fond of telling them what she called the plain truth. And, as Uncle Pippin said, while the truth was all right, in its place , there was no sense in pouring out great gobs of it around where it wasn't…” quote by L.M. Montgomery](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/l-m-montgomery-567_aunt_it-must-be-admitted-frankly-that-aunt-be_2515308.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/l-m-montgomery-567_aunt_it-must-be-admitted-frankly-that-aunt-be_2515308.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/963/l-m-montgomery-567_aunt_it-must-be-admitted-frankly-that-aunt-be_2515308.jpg) > ““It must be admitted frankly that Aunt Becky was not particularly beloved by her clan. She was too fond of telling them what she called the plain truth. And, as Uncle Pippin said, while the truth was all right, in its place , there was no sense in pouring out great gobs of it around where it wasn't wanted. To Aunt Becky, however, tact and diplomacy and discretion, never to mention any consideration for any one's feelings, were things unknown.”” [L.M. Montgomery](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/l-m-montgomery/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Aunt Becky’s blunt honesty alienates her because she lacks tact and consideration for others’ feelings. **In simple terms:** Blunt truth hurts without tact. Key Takeaway Balance honesty with empathy. Themes communication honesty empathy family dynamics Mood thoughtful cautious Type literary social When to use this quote - family gatherings - workplace feedback - friendship - public speaking Key Concepts social etiquette psychology interpersonal conflict Questions to Reflect On - When should you soften truth? - How to be honest without hurting? 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