--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: He considered her request before…" description: "\"“He considered her request before answering, and she could tell he was enjoying this. Jay loved this particular weakness of hers. “You can guess, but I..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/abe/kimberly-derting-2436_right-now_he-considered-her-request-before-answeri_1510825.jpg" --- # He considered her request before answering, and she could… ![“He considered her request before answering, and she could tell he was enjoying this. Jay loved this particular weakness of hers. “You can guess, but I’m still not telling.” “What if I guess right?” “Then you’d be pretty freakin’ amazing.” She pretended to be offended. “So, what if I don’t figure…” quote by Kimberly Derting](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/abe/kimberly-derting-2436_right-now_he-considered-her-request-before-answeri_1510825.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/abe/kimberly-derting-2436_right-now_he-considered-her-request-before-answeri_1510825.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/abe/kimberly-derting-2436_right-now_he-considered-her-request-before-answeri_1510825.jpg) > ““He considered her request before answering, and she could tell he was enjoying this. Jay loved this particular weakness of hers. “You can guess, but I’m still not telling.” “What if I guess right?” “Then you’d be pretty freakin’ amazing.” She pretended to be offended. “So, what if I don’t figure it out . . . ?” His uneven grin made an appearance. “You’re still pretty freakin’ amazing, Violet.” He lifted her hand, pressing it lightly to his lips. Violet felt herself blushing. She knew how to handle his teasing, but she still hadn’t gotten used to this gentler, sweeter side of him. “You’re such a girl,” she chided, but somehow the words came out too soft . . . too tender, and ended up sounding like a compliment. Jay just laughed. “So what does that make you, the guy?” He squeezed her hand even tighter, keeping it buried in his. “Or some sort of lesbian,” she teased, raising an eyebrow. “Maybe we should try out a little girl-on-girl action.” “ Nice , Violet. Do you kiss your mom with that mouth?” His eyes glinted as he watched her. She leaned closer to him in the darkness of the car’s interior. “No, but I’ll kiss you with it.” He set her hand back in her lap. “Watch it, Vi, or I might pull over right now and we’ll never make it there.” She raised her eyebrows. “Make it where?” “Nice try, but you can’t distract me that easily . . . it’s still a surprise.”” [Kimberly Derting](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kimberly-derting/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A flirtatious exchange reveals a playful, teasing dynamic that deepens intimacy while characters test boundaries with humor and affection. **In simple terms:** Playful teasing builds closeness. Key Takeaway Embrace humor in romance. 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