--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I think about death a lot, I really do…" description: "\"I think about death a lot, I really do, because I can't believe I won't exist. It's the ego isn't it? I feel that I should retreat into a better form o..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/052/kate-atkinson-1265_believe_i-think-about-death-a-lot-i-really-do-be_1057348.jpg" --- # I think about death a lot, I really do, because I can't… ![“I think about death a lot, I really do, because I can't believe I won't exist. It's the ego isn't it? I feel that I should retreat into a better form of Zen Buddhism than this kind of ego-dominated thing. But I don't know, I mean, I want to come back as a tree but I suspect that it's just not…” quote by Kate Atkinson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/052/kate-atkinson-1265_believe_i-think-about-death-a-lot-i-really-do-be_1057348.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/052/kate-atkinson-1265_believe_i-think-about-death-a-lot-i-really-do-be_1057348.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/052/kate-atkinson-1265_believe_i-think-about-death-a-lot-i-really-do-be_1057348.jpg) > “I think about death a lot, I really do, because I can't believe I won't exist. It's the ego isn't it? I feel that I should retreat into a better form of Zen Buddhism than this kind of ego-dominated thing. But I don't know, I mean, I want to come back as a tree but I suspect that it's just not going to happen, is it?” [Kate Atkinson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kate-atkinson/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The speaker wrestles with mortality, ego, and desire for transcendence, questioning identity beyond physical existence. **In simple terms:** Contemplating death and ego, yearning for a different form of being. Key Takeaway Accept impermanence, explore present-moment awareness. Themes mortality ego spirituality identity transcendence Mood reflective curious Type philosophical introspective When to use this quote - grief counseling - meditation practice - creative writing - environmental activism Key Concepts existentialism mindfulness self-concept Questions to Reflect On - How does ego shape your view of death? - What does “being a tree” symbolize for you? 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