--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: You want to control me.” She spoke…" description: "\"“You want to control me.” She spoke dispassionately as though observing the plight of another woman far distant from herself. Dragon looked up, surpris..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/820/josie-litton-6641_another-woman_you-want-to-control-me-she-spoke-dispass_2183851.jpg" --- # You want to control me.” She spoke dispassionately as… ![“You want to control me.” She spoke dispassionately as though observing the plight of another woman far distant from herself. Dragon looked up, surprised. “You are my wife.” “Say rather possession for so do you think, do you not?” He shrugged, wondering why she stated the obvious. “All wives belong…” quote by Josie Litton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/820/josie-litton-6641_another-woman_you-want-to-control-me-she-spoke-dispass_2183851.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/820/josie-litton-6641_another-woman_you-want-to-control-me-she-spoke-dispass_2183851.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/820/josie-litton-6641_another-woman_you-want-to-control-me-she-spoke-dispass_2183851.jpg) > ““You want to control me.” She spoke dispassionately as though observing the plight of another woman far distant from herself. Dragon looked up, surprised. “You are my wife.” “Say rather possession for so do you think, do you not?” He shrugged, wondering why she stated the obvious. “All wives belong to their husbands.” “I wanted to be free.” His eyes darkened. There was greater challenge here than even he had thought. “You wanted to be safe from Wolscroft and the rest of them, even from me when you though misguidedly. That is why you fled.” She shook her head. “Oh, no, safety was a convent from which not even my father could have forced me. But it was not to one such that I fled, was it? I wanted freedom, and having tasted it, however briefly, I want it still.” His hands tightened on her, driven by the sudden, piercing pain her words brought. Did she think to leave him again? To flee as she had done and leave him once more bereft. No, by heaven, she would not! “No one is free,” he said fiercely. “We are all enmeshed in duty and responsibility.” “Your duty is of your own choosing, for you did not return here after many years away and willingly take up your inheritance. Your destiny is of your own making and you the master of it as much as any man can claim to be. I want the same myself, no more, less.” “But you are a woman . . .” His bewilderment was genuine. Such yearnings as she described belonged to the realm of men. Women were for hearth and home, the nurturing of children, such ordered security of days as could be wrested from uncertain fate. A man in the thick of battle, in the fury of adventure, in the depths of night had to be able to count on that, for without it, of what purpose was anything? “You are a woman,” he repeated firmly. “And my wife. You have been too long apart from womanly ways with no proper influence to guide you. I applaud your strength and your courage; both will breed true in my sons, but—” “Your sons? Your sons? They will be my sons, Lord Vanity, and my daughters as well, mayhap only daughters, for by heaven it would suit me to thwart you so!”” [Josie Litton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/josie-litton/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Freedom is constrained by duty; both genders grapple with societal expectations and personal desire. **In simple terms:** Freedom and duty clash, shaping identity. Key Takeaway Balance duty with personal freedom. Themes freedom duty gender roles identity Mood dramatic conflict Type dialogue narrative When to use this quote - marriage - career choices - family expectations Key Concepts existentialism feminism Questions to Reflect On - What responsibilities define you? - Can duty coexist with freedom? 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That is why you fled.” She shook her head. “Oh, no, safety was a convent from which not even my father could have forced me. But it was not to one such that I fled, was it? I wanted freedom, and having tasted it, however briefly, I want it still.” His hands tightened on her, driven by the sudden, piercing pain her words brought. Did she think to leave him again? To flee as she had done and leave him once more bereft. No, by heaven, she would not! “No one is free,” he said fiercely. “We are all enmeshed in duty and responsibility.” “Your duty is of your own choosing, for you did not return here after many years away and willingly take up your inheritance. Your destiny is of your own making and you the master of it as much as any man can claim to be. I want the same myself, no more, less.” “But you are a woman . . .” His bewilderment was genuine. Such yearnings as she described belonged to the realm of men. 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