--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: The more we try to ground our identities…" description: "\"“The more we try to ground our identities in external possessions or triumphs, the more we plaster our names on everything we can accumulate, the more ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1a0/john-f-kavanaugh-249171_identity_the-more-we-try-to-ground-our-identities_8041.jpg" --- # The more we try to ground our identities in external… ![“The more we try to ground our identities in external possessions or triumphs, the more we plaster our names on everything we can accumulate, the more we cling to surface and style, the less we find underneath.” quote by John F. Kavanaugh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1a0/john-f-kavanaugh-249171_identity_the-more-we-try-to-ground-our-identities_8041.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1a0/john-f-kavanaugh-249171_identity_the-more-we-try-to-ground-our-identities_8041.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1a0/john-f-kavanaugh-249171_identity_the-more-we-try-to-ground-our-identities_8041.jpg) > ““The more we try to ground our identities in external possessions or triumphs, the more we plaster our names on everything we can accumulate, the more we cling to surface and style, the less we find underneath.”” John F. Kavanaugh ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Basing identity on external possessions leads to superficial attachment, obscuring deeper self-understanding. **In simple terms:** External possessions mask true identity. Key Takeaway Seek inner values over material gains. 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