--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Back then, it's weird, because I wasn't…" description: "\"Back then, it's weird, because I wasn't consciously thinking about it and I think that's why the doors opened and I had the opportunity. It was a big s..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b3/jillian-hervey-5299_bigs_back-then-it-s-weird-because-i-wasn-t-co_2974508.jpg" --- # Back then, it's weird, because I wasn't consciously… ![“Back then, it's weird, because I wasn't consciously thinking about it and I think that's why the doors opened and I had the opportunity. It was a big shift and I realized that you can plan and think your life is going somewhere, but you also have to surrender to what opportunities present…” quote by Jillian Hervey](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b3/jillian-hervey-5299_bigs_back-then-it-s-weird-because-i-wasn-t-co_2974508.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b3/jillian-hervey-5299_bigs_back-then-it-s-weird-because-i-wasn-t-co_2974508.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b3/jillian-hervey-5299_bigs_back-then-it-s-weird-because-i-wasn-t-co_2974508.jpg) > “Back then, it's weird, because I wasn't consciously thinking about it and I think that's why the doors opened and I had the opportunity. It was a big shift and I realized that you can plan and think your life is going somewhere, but you also have to surrender to what opportunities present themselves and really go for those as well.” [Jillian Hervey](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jillian-hervey/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Opportunities arise unexpectedly; planning is valuable, yet surrendering to chance can lead to growth. **In simple terms:** Balance planning with openness to chance. Key Takeaway Embrace both strategy and spontaneity. Themes opportunity planning serendipity Mood optimistic reflective Type motivational philosophical When to use this quote - career moves - personal goals - creative projects - null Key Concepts growth mindset life design Questions to Reflect On - When should you trust your plan? - How to recognize genuine opportunities? 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