--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: As long as the mind is in…" description: "\"As long as the mind is in conflict-blaming, resisting, condemning-there can be no understanding. If I want to understand you, I must not condemn you, o..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/029/jiddu-krishnamurti-249_blame_as-long-as-the-mind-is-in-conflict-blami_2503158.jpg" --- # As long as the mind is in conflict-blaming, resisting… ![“As long as the mind is in conflict-blaming, resisting, condemning-there can be no understanding. If I want to understand you, I must not condemn you, obviously.” quote by Jiddu Krishnamurti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/029/jiddu-krishnamurti-249_blame_as-long-as-the-mind-is-in-conflict-blami_2503158.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/029/jiddu-krishnamurti-249_blame_as-long-as-the-mind-is-in-conflict-blami_2503158.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/029/jiddu-krishnamurti-249_blame_as-long-as-the-mind-is-in-conflict-blami_2503158.jpg) > “As long as the mind is in conflict-blaming, resisting, condemning-there can be no understanding. If I want to understand you, I must not condemn you, obviously.” [Jiddu Krishnamurti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jiddu-krishnamurti/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Understanding cannot arise amid blame, resistance, or condemnation; true comprehension requires non‑judgmental presence. **In simple terms:** No judgment, only understanding. Key Takeaway Listen without condemning. Themes mindfulness empathy communication Mood calm thoughtful Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - conflict resolution - counseling - teaching - personal growth - dialogue Key Concepts Non‑attachment inner peace Questions to Reflect On - When have you judged and missed understanding? - How can you stay present in disagreement? 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