--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It scared me to need anyone so much. if…" description: "\"“It scared me to need anyone so much. if our souls became inextricably tangled, would mine still be mine? Did I care?”\" — Jeri Smith-Ready" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a3d/jeri-smith-ready-3642_scared_it-scared-me-to-need-anyone-so-much-if-o_1579262.png" --- # It scared me to need anyone so much. if our souls became… ![“It scared me to need anyone so much. if our souls became inextricably tangled, would mine still be mine? Did I care?” quote by Jeri Smith-Ready](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a3d/jeri-smith-ready-3642_scared_it-scared-me-to-need-anyone-so-much-if-o_1579262.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a3d/jeri-smith-ready-3642_scared_it-scared-me-to-need-anyone-so-much-if-o_1579262.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a3d/jeri-smith-ready-3642_scared_it-scared-me-to-need-anyone-so-much-if-o_1579262.png) > ““It scared me to need anyone so much. if our souls became inextricably tangled, would mine still be mine? Did I care?”” [Jeri Smith-Ready](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jeri-smith-ready/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. She fears deep emotional dependence and questions if merging souls erodes individuality. **In simple terms:** Fear of losing self in close relationships. Key Takeaway Recognize healthy boundaries in intimacy. Themes love fear identity Mood anxious reflective Type philosophical emotional When to use this quote - romantic partnership - friendship - family ties Key Concepts emotional dependence self‑identity Questions to Reflect On - Do you fear losing yourself in love? - How can you maintain self while caring deeply? A Different Perspective Intimacy can blur personal boundaries, risking loss of self. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet ## Related quotes > [Truly Jesus is the great need of our souls.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/hudson-taylor/truly-jesus-is-the-great-need-of-our-souls/) [Hudson Taylor](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/hudson-taylor/) > [Its dark...i am scared...me need cuddles](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/crystal/its-dark-i-am-scared-me-need-cuddles/) [Crystal](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/crystal/) > [“I'm scared, but I need to get out of this room. 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