--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I feel something very small growing…" description: "\"I feel something very small growing inside me as I look at her, and I realize in one absolutely clear moment that I don't like her at all. 'You know wh..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b71/jenny-downham-3127_clear_i-feel-something-very-small-growing-insi_710821.png" --- # I feel something very small growing inside me as I look at… ![“I feel something very small growing inside me as I look at her, and I realize in one absolutely clear moment that I don't like her at all. 'You know what?' I say. 'Forget it. I'll do the list by myself.' She stands up, swings her stupid hair about and tries to look offended. It's a trick that…” quote by Jenny Downham](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b71/jenny-downham-3127_clear_i-feel-something-very-small-growing-insi_710821.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b71/jenny-downham-3127_clear_i-feel-something-very-small-growing-insi_710821.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b71/jenny-downham-3127_clear_i-feel-something-very-small-growing-insi_710821.png) > “I feel something very small growing inside me as I look at her, and I realize in one absolutely clear moment that I don't like her at all. 'You know what?' I say. 'Forget it. I'll do the list by myself.' She stands up, swings her stupid hair about and tries to look offended. It's a trick that works with guys, but it makes no difference to the way I feel about her.” [Jenny Downham](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jenny-downham/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The narrator realizes an attraction is superficial, decides to reject the girl, and dismisses her emotional response as ineffective. **In simple terms:** Realizing a shallow attraction and moving on. Key Takeaway Accept feelings and act honestly. Themes relationships self-awareness rejection growth Mood conflicted determined Type fictional personal When to use this quote - dating - self-reflection - conflict resolution Key Concepts emotional honesty personal growth social dynamics Questions to Reflect On - What does this say about how we handle uncomfortable feelings? - How can we be kinder in rejection? 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