--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: That’s the thing about being an evader…" description: "\"“That’s the thing about being an evader. You have to be flexible and know when to bail before it all gets weird. Better for everyone, really. I’m a giv..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/461/jenn-bennett-11192_avoiding_that-s-the-thing-about-being-an-evader-y_2620270.jpg" --- # That’s the thing about being an evader. You have to be… ![“That’s the thing about being an evader. You have to be flexible and know when to bail before it all gets weird. Better for everyone, really. I’m a giver. My plane landed half an hour ago, but I’m taking a circuitous route to what I hope is the backside of baggage claim, where my dad is supposed to…” quote by Jenn Bennett](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/461/jenn-bennett-11192_avoiding_that-s-the-thing-about-being-an-evader-y_2620270.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/461/jenn-bennett-11192_avoiding_that-s-the-thing-about-being-an-evader-y_2620270.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/461/jenn-bennett-11192_avoiding_that-s-the-thing-about-being-an-evader-y_2620270.jpg) > ““That’s the thing about being an evader. You have to be flexible and know when to bail before it all gets weird. Better for everyone, really. I’m a giver. My plane landed half an hour ago, but I’m taking a circuitous route to what I hope is the backside of baggage claim, where my dad is supposed to pick me up. The key to avoiding uncomfortable situations is a preemptive strike: make sure you see them first. And before you accuse me of being a coward, think again. It’s not easy being this screwed up. It takes planning and sharp reflexes. A devious mind. My mom says I’d make a great pickpocket, because I can disappear faster than you can say, Where’s my wallet? The Artful Dodger, right here.”” [Jenn Bennett](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jenn-bennett/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Survival requires adaptability, preemptive action, and strategic avoidance of discomfort, likened to a pickpocket’s skill. **In simple terms:** Adapt and act early to avoid trouble. Key Takeaway Plan ahead and stay flexible. Themes survival adaptability strategy avoidance Mood strategic pragmatic Type advice strategic When to use this quote - travel - personal safety - conflict resolution - career planning Key Concepts game theory psychology risk management Questions to Reflect On - When is it better to confront rather than avoid? - How does flexibility balance with commitment? A Different Perspective Over‑planning can lead to paranoia and missed opportunities. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Pickpocket](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/pickpocket/) [Uncomfortable situations](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/uncomfortable-situations/) ## Related quotes > [“I like being brave well enough, but I will be a lazy coward again if you think that would be better.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/peter-s-beagle/i-like-being-brave-well-enough-but-i-will-be-a-lazy-coward-again-if/) [Peter S. 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