--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: One feels as if it could never, never be…" description: "\"One feels as if it could never, never be less. And yet all griefs, when there is no bitterness in them, are soothed down by time.\" — Jane Welsh Carlyle" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b73/jane-welsh-carlyle-13856_anger_one-feels-as-if-it-could-never-never-be_3207085.jpg" --- # One feels as if it could never, never be less. And yet all… ![“One feels as if it could never, never be less. And yet all griefs, when there is no bitterness in them, are soothed down by time.” quote by Jane Welsh Carlyle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b73/jane-welsh-carlyle-13856_anger_one-feels-as-if-it-could-never-never-be_3207085.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b73/jane-welsh-carlyle-13856_anger_one-feels-as-if-it-could-never-never-be_3207085.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b73/jane-welsh-carlyle-13856_anger_one-feels-as-if-it-could-never-never-be_3207085.jpg) > “One feels as if it could never, never be less. And yet all griefs, when there is no bitterness in them, are soothed down by time.” [Jane Welsh Carlyle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jane-welsh-carlyle/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Grief eases over time when it lacks bitterness, allowing healing. **In simple terms:** Time soothes unburdened grief. Key Takeaway Allow time to heal without resentment. Themes grief healing time emotion Mood somber reflective Type poetic philosophical When to use this quote - bereavement - personal loss - long‑term mourning - emotional recovery Key Concepts acceptance resilience emotional processing Questions to Reflect On - What helps you release bitterness? - Can time alone heal all sorrow? 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