--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I could no longer afford to be jealous or…" description: "\"I could no longer afford to be jealous or unfriendly, because, as soon as I was, a bandage came down over my eyes, and I was bound hand and foot and ca..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/295/jacques-lusseyran-57597_being-jealous_i-could-no-longer-afford-to-be-jealous-o_2347553.png" --- # I could no longer afford to be jealous or unfriendly… ![“I could no longer afford to be jealous or unfriendly, because, as soon as I was, a bandage came down over my eyes, and I was bound hand and foot and cast aside. All at once a black hole opened, and I was helpless inside it. But when I was happy and serene, approached people with confidence and…” quote by Jacques Lusseyran](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/295/jacques-lusseyran-57597_being-jealous_i-could-no-longer-afford-to-be-jealous-o_2347553.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/295/jacques-lusseyran-57597_being-jealous_i-could-no-longer-afford-to-be-jealous-o_2347553.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/295/jacques-lusseyran-57597_being-jealous_i-could-no-longer-afford-to-be-jealous-o_2347553.png) > “I could no longer afford to be jealous or unfriendly, because, as soon as I was, a bandage came down over my eyes, and I was bound hand and foot and cast aside. All at once a black hole opened, and I was helpless inside it. But when I was happy and serene, approached people with confidence and thought well of them, I was rewarded with light.” [Jacques Lusseyran](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jacques-lusseyran/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Jealousy blinds and traps us, while gratitude and confidence open us to positive experiences. **In simple terms:** Jealousy blocks growth; gratitude invites light. Key Takeaway Cultivate gratitude and confidence to attract positivity. Themes gratitude confidence mindset emotional health resilience Mood reflective hopeful inspirational Type philosophical motivational When to use this quote - personal relationships - career challenges - mental health recovery - social interactions Key Concepts psychology emotional intelligence self‑awareness Questions to Reflect On - How can you turn jealousy into gratitude? - What daily practices foster confidence? 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