--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: When I'd originally loaded the car and…" description: "\"“When I'd originally loaded the car and held the door open for him, I'd had a passing impulse to pick him up bodily and insert him gently through the o..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db6/j-d-salinger-560_tiny_when-i-d-originally-loaded-the-car-and-h_2337758.png" --- # When I'd originally loaded the car and held the door open… ![“When I'd originally loaded the car and held the door open for him, I'd had a passing impulse to pick him up bodily and insert him gently through the open window.” quote by J.D. Salinger](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db6/j-d-salinger-560_tiny_when-i-d-originally-loaded-the-car-and-h_2337758.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db6/j-d-salinger-560_tiny_when-i-d-originally-loaded-the-car-and-h_2337758.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db6/j-d-salinger-560_tiny_when-i-d-originally-loaded-the-car-and-h_2337758.png) > ““When I'd originally loaded the car and held the door open for him, I'd had a passing impulse to pick him up bodily and insert him gently through the open window.”” [J.D. Salinger](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/j-d-salinger/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. An impulsive desire to physically lift someone through a car window reflects a moment of intense, perhaps aggressive, curiosity. **In simple terms:** Impulsive urge to grab someone. Key Takeaway Recognize and temper impulsive urges. 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