--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: But it was too interesting, too new, too…" description: "\"But it was too interesting, too new, too flattering, too deeply comforting to resist, it was a liberation to be in love and say so, and she could only ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/ian-mcewan-494_comforting_but-it-was-too-interesting-too-new-too-f_1092385.jpg" --- # But it was too interesting, too new, too flattering, too… ![“But it was too interesting, too new, too flattering, too deeply comforting to resist, it was a liberation to be in love and say so, and she could only let herself go deeper.” quote by Ian Mcewan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/ian-mcewan-494_comforting_but-it-was-too-interesting-too-new-too-f_1092385.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/ian-mcewan-494_comforting_but-it-was-too-interesting-too-new-too-f_1092385.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a58/ian-mcewan-494_comforting_but-it-was-too-interesting-too-new-too-f_1092385.jpg) > “But it was too interesting, too new, too flattering, too deeply comforting to resist, it was a liberation to be in love and say so, and she could only let herself go deeper.” [Ian Mcewan](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/ian-mcewan/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Love feels liberating and deeply comforting, prompting the lover to surrender fully. **In simple terms:** Love feels freeing and comforting. Key Takeaway Allow love to deepen without resistance. Themes love liberation comfort passion self‑surrender Mood passionate intimate Type romantic inspirational When to use this quote - intimate relationships - creative expression - therapy sessions - spiritual rituals Key Concepts romantic surrender emotional release Questions to Reflect On - What does surrender mean to you? - How do you protect self while giving love? 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