--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Manlius ... took care in his invitations…" description: "\"Manlius ... took care in his invitations, actively sought to exclude from his circle crude and vulgar men like Caius Valerius. But they were all around..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da0/iain-pears-9652_absurdity_manlius-took-care-in-his-invitations-act_1826332.png" --- # Manlius ... took care in his invitations, actively sought… ![“Manlius ... took care in his invitations, actively sought to exclude from his circle crude and vulgar men like Caius Valerius. But they were all around; it was Manlius who lived in a dream world, and his bubble of civility was becoming smaller and smaller. Caius Valerius, powerful member of a…” quote by Iain Pears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da0/iain-pears-9652_absurdity_manlius-took-care-in-his-invitations-act_1826332.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da0/iain-pears-9652_absurdity_manlius-took-care-in-his-invitations-act_1826332.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/da0/iain-pears-9652_absurdity_manlius-took-care-in-his-invitations-act_1826332.png) > “Manlius ... took care in his invitations, actively sought to exclude from his circle crude and vulgar men like Caius Valerius. But they were all around; it was Manlius who lived in a dream world, and his bubble of civility was becoming smaller and smaller. Caius Valerius, powerful member of a powerful family, had never even heard of Plato. A hundred, even fifty years before, such an absurdity would have been inconceivable. Now it was surprising if such a man did know anything of philosophy, and even if it was explained, he would not wish to understand.” [Iain Pears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/iain-pears/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Manlius isolates himself from vulgarity, yet his elite circle shrinks as society changes, highlighting the paradox of exclusivity in a diverse world. **In simple terms:** Excluding crude people makes his refined circle shrink. Key Takeaway Beware of isolation; stay open. Themes exclusivity social change class culture philosophy Mood reflective critical Type analytical philosophical When to use this quote - political gatherings - academic circles - social clubs - networking events Key Concepts elitism social dynamics intellectualism Questions to Reflect On - How does exclusivity affect personal growth? - Can one maintain civility without isolation? 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