--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: That is why we were drawn to one another…" description: "\"That is why we were drawn to one another and why we are brother and sister. I am going to teach you to dance and play and smile, and still not be happy..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16f/hermann-hesse-130_brother_that-is-why-we-were-drawn-to-one-another_2743103.png" --- # That is why we were drawn to one another and why we are… ![“That is why we were drawn to one another and why we are brother and sister. I am going to teach you to dance and play and smile, and still not be happy. And you are going to teach me to think and to know and yet not be happy. Do you know that we are both children of the Devil?” quote by Hermann Hesse](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16f/hermann-hesse-130_brother_that-is-why-we-were-drawn-to-one-another_2743103.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16f/hermann-hesse-130_brother_that-is-why-we-were-drawn-to-one-another_2743103.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/16f/hermann-hesse-130_brother_that-is-why-we-were-drawn-to-one-another_2743103.png) > “That is why we were drawn to one another and why we are brother and sister. I am going to teach you to dance and play and smile, and still not be happy. And you are going to teach me to think and to know and yet not be happy. Do you know that we are both children of the Devil?” [Hermann Hesse](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/hermann-hesse/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Shared learning and companionship can coexist with inner unhappiness, suggesting deeper existential conflict. **In simple terms:** Learning together yet feeling empty. Key Takeaway Seek meaning beyond external connections. Themes existence relationships spirituality Mood melancholic contemplative Type literary philosophical When to use this quote - friendship - family - personal growth Key Concepts existentialism dualism inner conflict Questions to Reflect On - What inner void persists despite companionship? - How can you find fulfillment within? 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