--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: If you have to choose between something…" description: "\"“If you have to choose between something that has form and something that doesn't, go for the one without form. That's my rule.”\" — Haruki Murakami" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a1/haruki-murakami-21_choice_if-you-have-to-choose-between-something_3221355.jpg" --- # If you have to choose between something that has form and… ![“If you have to choose between something that has form and something that doesn't, go for the one without form. That's my rule.” quote by Haruki Murakami](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a1/haruki-murakami-21_choice_if-you-have-to-choose-between-something_3221355.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a1/haruki-murakami-21_choice_if-you-have-to-choose-between-something_3221355.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5a1/haruki-murakami-21_choice_if-you-have-to-choose-between-something_3221355.jpg) > ““If you have to choose between something that has form and something that doesn't, go for the one without form. That's my rule.”” [Haruki Murakami](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/haruki-murakami/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. When faced with choices, prefer the undefined, flexible option over a rigid, predefined one. **In simple terms:** Choose flexibility over fixed forms. Key Takeaway Embrace the formless. 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