--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: What I 'd like first is someone to raise…" description: "\"“What I 'd like first is someone to raise them with, someone who will look at me and say, 'that one. I want that one.' You know what I mean? I want som..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a80/giselle-ellis-46959_hope_what-i-d-like-first-is-someone-to-raise_189547.jpg" --- # What I 'd like first is someone to raise them with… ![“What I 'd like first is someone to raise them with, someone who will look at me and say, 'that one. I want that one.' You know what I mean? I want someone who will know right away that he wants to be with me and raise kids with me and just...love me.” quote by Giselle Ellis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a80/giselle-ellis-46959_hope_what-i-d-like-first-is-someone-to-raise_189547.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a80/giselle-ellis-46959_hope_what-i-d-like-first-is-someone-to-raise_189547.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a80/giselle-ellis-46959_hope_what-i-d-like-first-is-someone-to-raise_189547.jpg) > ““What I 'd like first is someone to raise them with, someone who will look at me and say, 'that one. I want that one.' You know what I mean? I want someone who will know right away that he wants to be with me and raise kids with me and just...love me.”” [Giselle Ellis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/giselle-ellis/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The speaker desires a partner who instantly recognizes love and shares the goal of raising children together, seeking immediate mutual commitment. **In simple terms:** They want a partner who knows they love them and wants to raise kids together. Key Takeaway Seek relationships with clear, shared life goals. Themes love commitment family compatibility Mood hopeful intimate aspirational Type romantic relationship advice When to use this quote - dating - marriage - family planning - relationship counseling Key Concepts mutual recognition parenting emotional honesty Questions to Reflect On - How can you foster deep connection before expecting certainty? - What signs indicate genuine shared values? 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